Adding a new baby to your family is such an exciting time — and your maternity session is the perfect opportunity to capture not just your beautiful bump, but the sweet connection between you and your older kiddos too.
Including your children in your maternity photos makes the session extra meaningful, but it helps to set them up for success so everyone enjoys the experience. If you’re planning a maternity session in Greenwich, CT, here’s how to prepare your little ones for a smooth, fun day:
Talk About It Ahead of Time
Start chatting about the session a few days beforehand. Keep it light and positive — explain that you’ll all get to cuddle, play, and take special photos with mom and the baby in her belly.
Use words they understand: “We’re going to have family fun and take pictures so we can remember how much we loved you and baby even before they were born!”
Make Them Feel Included
Kids love to feel important. Let them pick a small item to bring along — like a favorite stuffed animal or a baby book to “read” to the belly. I’ll gently weave it into a few shots if they’re up for it!
Also, involve them in picking their outfit: give two parent-approved choices so they feel like they have a say without turning it into a fashion battle.
Keep the Energy Light & Playful
On session day, remind them it’s not about posing perfectly — it’s about having fun with mom! During our time together, I’ll guide them with easy prompts: hugging the belly, giving kisses, whispering secrets to baby, or playing silly games that bring out genuine smiles.
If your session is at a studio, I’ll even play their favorite songs in the background to keep the vibe light and happy.
Please skip screen time on the car ride over — it’s much easier to keep their mood upbeat when they’re engaged, rather than needing to switch gears from a tablet to interacting. Singing songs or playing a quick car game sets the tone perfectly.
Pack the Essentials
- Bring along a few session day lifesavers:
- A snack and water (non-messy options!)
- A favorite small toy or comfort item
- A backup outfit just in case
- Wipes for quick cleanups
Bonus Tip: Celebrate (But Tell Them Later!)
A little reward after the session — like ice cream, a playground visit, or a picnic — makes the day extra special. But here’s the secret: don’t tell them about it beforehand! Wait until we’re close to finishing so they don’t get impatient or distracted during photos.
Remember:
Kids will be kids — wiggly, giggly, shy, or energetic — and that’s exactly what makes these photos precious and real. I’ve got it! I know how to guide kids gently and naturally, so you don’t need to stress about a thing.
Including your older child in your maternity session is such a beautiful way to celebrate your growing family. If you’re planning a maternity session in Greenwich, CT, I’d love to help make it joyful, easy, and fun for everyone.
